By Natasha Alter



When I first started studying astrology and learning about my natal chart, I caught myself thinking, “I wish my parents had known that when I was born.” I realized how many misconceptions, projections, painful misunderstandings and emotional traumas could have been avoided had my parents been instructed in the nature of the child they had just received.

An Indispensable Tool in Conscious Parenting

Astrology cannot be overestimated as an indispensable tool in conscious parenting. Each child comes into this existence with a unique destiny to fulfill, a journey to experience, skills to master. The birth chart is the blueprint of incarnation, a map of the journey ahead. It reveals the personality the soul has chosen to express itself through in this lifetime.
The unique kaleidoscope of gifts, traits, emotional and intellectual make-up, sensitivities and perceptions are all coded in the matrix of the birth chart. The potential for full expression is there but whether and to what degree this potential will be activated is partially dependent on the environment each child will interact with on his or her journey.

What Astrology Reveals About Our Children

Below are a few essential themes, revealed in the natal chart, that serve as important building blocks in the healthy development of each child:
1. Emotional nature and needs
2. Parent-child dynamic and perception of mother and father
3. Intellectual and psychological profile
4. Physical needs, health and vitality
5. Innate gifts, talents and creative outlets
6. Transpersonal profile, generational and collective traits
7. Individual learning tendencies and ideal educational choices
8. Spiritual development and the best ways to support this unfoldment

Supporting Emotional Needs

shutterstock_98163134Emotional support and the experience of safety are fundamental in providing a solid, secure foundation for a developing soul. But the way each child will feel emotionally nurtured will differ with each case, just as we as adults have different ways to find comfort and emotional fulfillment.
Some children will crave a lot of physical closeness while others will be nourished by conversation; some will thrive in shared physical activities while others will feel more comfortable in intimate one-on-one attention.When coping with emotional reactions, some children will need to dwell on the event in order to assimilate it, others will find healing in play, some heal through social interactions and some will need a tantrum to release the emotional stress.
All of these diverse emotional needs are coded in each child’s chart. This knowledge can be crucial in understanding, supporting and creating more closeness between parent and child. It opens doors for patience in place of frustration and irritation, compassion instead of judgement, and loving acceptance in place of fear.

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Learn more about Natasha’s work at www.natashaalter.com.